A friend and I were visiting Cape Town. By the end of a day spent doing touristy things, we were tired and quite desperate to hop into a taxi and get some rest.
We had a bit of difficulty finding a taxi stand, so we decided to ask a kind-faced South African lady.
The following conversation ensued:
Us: Hello, where can we find a Cab |KAB|, please?
Her: *puzzled look* Cab? |KAB|
Us: *big smile* Yes, a Cab |KAB|
Her: *bewildered look* You want a Cab? |KAB|
Us: *slightly slackened smile* Yes, a Cab |KAB|
We went back and forth like this for ten seconds or so. At this point, I was thinking “Oh sweet Baby Jesus, in your cute little Mothercare onesie, sucking at your crucifix-shaped pacifier, please help us all understand each other”.
Then…
Her: *looking more confused than ever* You mean a Baby Lion?!
I had my aha! moment right then and there, when I realised what had just happened, and I roared with laughter (spot the pun).
Us: Oh Noooo! We need a Taxi
Her: Ooooh! You meant a Cab |KEB|
Us: Yessss!
Well, Mma Phonetics, the beautiful Calabar mistress of Zeus (If you find this doubtful, go study the mythical Greek-Nigerian mythology), had just shown us that her shiny brass eting hair pin is actually a double-edged sword that pierces one, this way and that way.
- Baby Lion:
Nigeria- Cub |KUB|
South Africa- Cub |KAB| - Taxi:
Nigeria- Cab |KAB|
South Africa – Cab |KEB|.
Likewise, Perspective is also a double-edged sword. Half-full. Half-empty. Lemons. Lemonade. One’s choice of perspective is the epicenter of their power, their peace, or lack of it.
Anyway, once I regained 75% flexibility in my ankle, 2 months post-cast removal, I started to drive. I was also able to press down on the sewing machine pedal comfortably (I sew with my right foot).
Cast was off, I wasn’t going to pine or whine about the lost months or slow start to my year or delayed plans. What happened had happened. I was going to move and keep moving. That was my preferred perspective.
I hadn’t sewn for five months, I decided I wanted to resume by making a celebration dress in a happy colour.
I chose a maxi dress with a bra-cup bustier bodice and gathered skirt. Fabric was a lemon-yellow printed cotton, which I bought from an ankara seller at Balogun market, and lining was a synthetic raw silk.
Pattern modification – I started with a basic sloper set, the front bodice pattern had a shoulder bust dart. I did 100% bust dart increase, under-bust tightening and developed the bra cups. A total of 6 panels emerged from the process, 2 from the back pattern and 4 from the front pattern.
I sewed up a toile to fit the pattern and made a few adjustments. I find that a test garment is essential when making elaborate designs.
Then I cut the shell and lining pieces.
I later attached fusible interfacing to the lining pieces to give more structure so it could support the boning strips, and also inserted under-wiring beneath the lining cups.
Used a flared skirt for the lining piece and gathered skirt for the shell piece.
I do hope your preferred perspective is always as sunshiny bright as my dress.
Portraits by Chuck Daniels Photography
What a pretty dress! I love the color
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Thank you Robert! 🙂
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That dress- print and color looks good on you. Original Yellow Sisi for sure. 😊
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Hello Seun,
Yellow is such a happy hue. Lol.. Thank you so much for stopping by. 😀
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I love your posts. You have inspired me for a while. Your comment on perspective being a source of power and peace was so needed. I’ve taken a couple of years to learn about sewing, fitting and drafting. I would beat myself up because of perfectionism and feeling like I’m not progressing fast enough. Now, I’ve realized that I do have to mess up in order to get better and it takes time to get better, especially if you’ve never touched a sewing machine or anything. Sending love from USA.
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Hi lady,
Thank you so much for stopping by.
Perfection is sooo overrated! I got better at sewing while learning from my mistakes.
I do hope you’ll continue with sewing, it’s such a beautiful skill.
Have a lovely week 😘
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Beautiful
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Hello RitaMary, thank you so much for the kind compliment 😘
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Nice!!! Miss you dear sis😘
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Hello Sis, thank you so much for stopping by! Miss you too 😘 😘 😘
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Ms. N,
Beautiful dress!!! Lovely color and perfect companion to your reminder about maintaining a good perspective on things. Glad your foot is better and glad you all figured out the taxi situation. 😄
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Hi babe,
Thank you so much for coming by.
Positivity isn’t always easy but it sure makes it easier to deal with this life.
Have a happy week 😘
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